What is your WORTH?

What is your WORTH?

We always keep wondering to search our worth in this materialistic world. We always try to think about the true purpose of our life. Life is a crazy maze where we are perplexed at every turn of it. We don’t know whether we are going in the right direction or not. Sometimes the direction which we go may lead us to a wrong path or a dead end. We curse ourselves. But what we do next is the true worth of our presence. Suppose it is not life but a maze for real, what will you do? You come back or turn into another direction and take all pains to come out to your destiny or you sit there repent yourself for what all has happened. Where will it lead us? It leads us to the grave. Life is a plain canvas having DOTS on it you don’t know what lies in that dot until you join them. There lies a magnificent picture behind those dots. You just have to join them without questioning.

Life is a journey from cradle to grave. Both these places are fixed and there is no change. You might reach your destiny earlier than usual or late but the destination won’t change. Then when we know what our end route is why not make it a joy ride in your own way. This is your life your journey. You are like a passenger in a bus travelling, people board, come play their part and exit when their stop has come it is only you who is going to get down at your stop. Stop bothering whether you are worthy of something or not just make sure you are worthy in your own terms. And when it comes to the question despite all this, you want to still know what your worth is then I will tell you that your worth cannot be calculated in terms of money or according to your understanding but sure you are a worthy person because if you are born then you have some worth.

From the very beginning of your journey you are put up with challenges of life to prove your worth. When you enter a womb still not having any shape you fight your way to become a fetus. There you struggle to stay because some are wanted and some unwanted. You slowly grow in the womb of the woman who is going to give you birth and still during this duration of 9 months nobody, the child in the womb, the woman, or anybody knows where your journey leads to you fight your way to birth.

Even after your birth, some children end up dead, homeless, or killed. You are lucky enough that you have come so far from the struggling journey which has many hazardous situations, when you didn’t even have the power to stop them. Then why now you have stopped your fight despite having everything in you. Now today you have strength, intellect, everything you can imagine of then WHY NOW? Are you trying to find out your worth or why have you stopped your fight?

Your true worth is determined for WHAT YOU FIGHT FOR. So stop blaming or searching for answers, life is a journey of wars where at every step you have o constantly prepare yourself and overcome your enemies who stop you from being what you are.

Maybe this is the reason why Swami Vivekananda rightly said “ARISE AWAKE AND STOP NOT TILL YOUR GOAL IS REACHED” Man is a person who has the habit of sleeping (ignorance) so come out from your shell of ignorance and prove your presence felt and make your time worthy on this land till you have time because there always might not be a second chance.

Don’t fall in love with me, I don’t want to fall for you

True felt love

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Did He Give Up On Me

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You have that smile that anyone could fall for. You’ve got those almond-shaped eyes I have adored since the very first time I saw you. It is beautiful how they taper and it’s not every day that I see a person who is supposed to have big blue eyes genetically but has the same eye shape as I do. I like the way your eyes seem nonexistent when you try to smile; and the way your lips curve upwards. You have no idea how they could make anyone’s life one hundred times better. Your well sculpted body is like a clone of a higher being, and you have almost all of the incredible talents that makes me want to wish I were you. You are amazing. You are achingly…beyond beautiful.

I like how even the simplest things you do could make me smile. You…

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MODI

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MODI is not a name or a person we regard him as “Mode Of Development in India”, but that was before election and before he became the 15th Prime Minister of India. He assumed office in the year 2014. He at the age of 8 joined the RSS-Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh, at a very young age he played a vital role in the RSS organizing many events for BJP supporting L.K Advani and many eminent leaders of BJP, from a volunteer of RSS he rose up to the position of Secretary of BJP in national level by 2001. In the year 2001 he became a substitute Chief Minister of Gujarat, won elections in 2002 and since then till 2014 he was the chief minister of Gujarat. During his term he has changed the shape and vision of Gujarat. It is because of his dedication and development in Gujarat we the people of India have elected him to be the 15th Prime Minister of India so that he will lead us to development and show us a vision which we have seen just in our dreams about India. It has been 1year since he took up the office and we today all I hear about Modi is “we are dejected, what has he done so far? It has been a year he assumed the office and he has done nothing, he just is roaming the outside world meeting delegates of different countries, he has not done anything in the past one year.” Even heard this “it is very tough for Modi to win the elections next year because he failed the hearts of India.”
Let me tell you to all those people who are showing Thumbs down and Booing Him Today that you guys are all pessimists and are blinded by your own selfishness. It is not an easy task to run a country because it is not like you driving your car on a road, the post of a Prime Minister is of the duty like a post man if he doesn’t deliver his letters properly to the correct address or doesn’t do his duty properly the whole country will have to face the wrath. It is not his hands alone which he needs to run a country because it is not a monarchy, it is a democracy and India is a democratic country. If you want to see India developed it is not just Modi who has the duty to do it is each and every individuals duty to assist him, he alone cannot run such a big country to success unless we the people of India cooperate with him. It is said that Rome was not built in A DAY and you expect him to build India in a year which was looted and pulled down to scrap. India has been looted for centuries and was looted in the recent years too. So I request all the LOGICAL and REASONABLE INDIANS to give him more time to settle scores with the past and rebuild India the way we want to see it and assist him and all those who want our India to be a better place.

“No matter how much ever hard you try you cannot give birth to a child in one month by making nine women pregnant. – Warren Buffet”

Never Judge a book by its cover…. Because appearances may deceive.

-A true story.

We often hear this quote in our school days. Our teachers make us bi-heart these proverbs and quotations, I never knew what they meant. Seriously speaking, I never understood what sense they make for example: searching for a needle in a hay stack, a stitch in time saves nine, never judge a book by its cover, make hay while the sun shines. I still don’t understand the meaning of certain quotes and idioms I learnt in my childhood, but eventually during the journey of my life in search of my quest I have been finding the real meaning of the quotes and what they meant and why they were taught to us in our childhood by our teachers because whatever you learn though at present it makes no sense and meaningless but you will in some point of your life realize that “that” which you learned then has become useful today.

Today I want to share a small experience which gave me the meaning of the above titled quotation. During my initial years in Hyderabad I had to change a lot of accommodations because I never got the proper one which would fit my lifestyle. Finally I went to a trust hostel set up for the welfare of our community students to support such students during their schooling in Hyderabad. I shifted to my room and was just settling, as I was the “New Guy” the old students started introducing themselves to me and I in turn introduced myself, my first day with the new hostel went peaceful, only one more student shares my room, he pursues his Chartered accountancy and hardly stays in the room so it is a perfect sync for me in my style because I have the whole room for myself the whole day long! Days went by and I started making new friends hanging around with them more and enjoying their company though none of them were not from my stream or from the place I came from. T all felt as f they were a part of my small world. Out of my group there was a person who was not that conversant, he was mostly silent r grumpy (or at least I thought so) so I thought maybe he has some ego issues or he feels that he s something great. Later on when I kept interacting with a few of the ld students I got to know from them that his name was Mani Shankar, he was our batch and a nut crack person it s better if you stay a bit away from him. Time passed by all of them started getting busy in their own lives and I was busy in mine, I often pass a friendly smile when I come across him but never attempted to make a conversation. Slowly we started crossing our paths more frequently in hostel and making more attempts just than simply smiling. It has been a year now or more I don’t know but I will tell you what all I heard about him or felt about him turned out to be wrong because he was such a friendly and nice person. It was only that he doesn’t like anyone to enter in his personal space that quickly but once he lets someone, he becomes so close that you cannot imagine how you will be without him. Though we don’t talk regularly or hang out together much yet we share that bond which is in fact a very tender bond it cannot be said as friendship, it is more than that we have shared something very deep dark secrets and behaved like bff’s though we hardly know each other and have been together only for an year. This is when I realized that we should

“Never Judge a Book by its cover because appearances may deceive you”.

He now has completed his studies and most probably will be heading for higher studies in foreign. Today is a very special day for him. It’s his birthday. I wish he gets success at all his endeavors. Happy Birthday Mani. Wish you Luck!

SILENCE

                                    SILENCE is a very powerful weapon. It has the power to bring out anything hidden deep inside of anything or anyone with practice. To grow and to learn SILENCE is very important. It plays a very important and dominant role in our life which we don’t realize that it actually does. SILENCE is so powerful that it can make opposite person think twice before he speaks because when 2 people are having a chat and suddenly one person becomes silent the change of environment becomes clearly evident to the opposite person. He stops and tries to know if something is wrong. It reminds of my mom when I was a small child she used to tell me “don’t let people get away with you by teasing you and getting the best of you. Just be calm and composed it is they who are making fools of themselves not you”

For example you came home from outside and your house is unusually silent you are suddenly worried that something serious has happened or that there is no one at your home. It is just that since from many a times we humans are quizzed and dazzled by the concept called “SILENCE”. We never really have been able to harness this powerful weapon.  SILENCE doesn’t mean to keep quiet or to be still and not talking anything, it means to be quiet from deep within in the mind and the heart and think coolly. We very often listen to people asking us to calm down and think. This mysterious weapon is always referred by many counselors and career guidance teachers. Most of the philosophers and spiritual guru’s when asked to give any remedy to help them get peace they tell us to spend some of our daily time in SILENCE or meditating so that we can get peace if we make it our regularity.

Now then why do all these people tell the same thing? Is SILENCE capable of such tremendous powers so that it can change our lives and lifestyles? Is it capable of personality development? These are the questions we tend to ask ourselves or to the people who tell us about this art.

The truth is the biological constitution of a human being is so designed or at least it is so accustomed to keep itself busy that a normal human being cannot bear to be in a silent and secluded area for long not because he is afraid of the area but the silence surrounding makes him alert which tenses the brain and activates all your brain cells to concentrate on a singular aspect which our brain is not used to and we are afraid to accept it because we are not habituated to it. Scientifically it is proved that if a person keeping calm and silent and meditating for a few minutes daily will reduce the risk of heart problems because it reduces the pumping speed of the heart and also relaxes all the nerves in the body which in return clears our mind. That is why we are always asked to remain calm when in despair because it clouds our rationale thinking. It also helps in keeping problems at bay. There is a famous Telugu saying “Tana kopame tanaku shatruvu tana shantame tanaku raksha” it means a person’s enemy is his own anger and his shield is his calmness. This is supported by the scientific finding that when we get angry the adrenalin rush increases to our brain and such rush damages few tissues in our brain which may cause us to arguments etc.

So in order to achieve something in life or to know about yourself or to grow in your prospects I suggest you and many personality development masters suggest you to spend time with yourself every day in silence so that you can know what you are capable of and the decisions which you take when you are in peace are the most rationale decisions and such decisions will lead you because such is the power of SILENCE you get all your answers for all the troubles in this powerful weapon called SILENCE.

“Speech is SILVER whereas Silence is GOLD”