Lead India 2020 -Missile Man with a Mission

This is my tribute to the great man who stood for what he believed.

This is a land where great leaders, great philosophers and great scientists were born. We should be in fact very proud of it. Many great people were born who made their mark and left an indelible impression in this world.

India is the 2nd most populous country in the world and also the most widespread people over the globe are Indians. Out of every 40 Americans, there is an Indian and out of the top 20 richest persons in America there are 5 Indians. It is said that “you don’t find Americans, Japanese, Chinese, Europeans, Britishers in India, but you find Indians everywhere.” We are in India as well as everywhere, we are widespread and we also lead. To be a proud Indian we can say that now, Indians even lead the biggest software companies in the world. Satya Nadella for Microsoft, Sundar Pichai for Google, Sanjay Kumar Jha etc. We have many greats in many things. We have a God of Cricket, we have God of Maths, we have the Greatest Politician the world has ever seen, we have many people who are constantly making India a proud country for producing such leaders. But among them all there is a gem of gems who recently passed away and I think that he should be regarded as the true dreamer of India and we call him as “Missile Man”. This man not only made Indians feel proud but, he made many people of the world feel proud of him.

His name is Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam (A.P.J. Abdul Kalam) born on 15th October 1931, Rameshwaram, Tamil Nadu who recently passed away on 27-72015. He was the 11th president of India. He was a dreamer a true visionary of India. He believed that India’s only super power is its youth and if we empower this super power with knowledge. If we feed them with self-confidence and the courage to dream then India would truly be a super power in the world. Believing in this dream till his last breath he did what he liked. He went around all over the country meeting students in different states and inspiring them to dream. He always told the students to dream and if anyone tells that such a dream is impossible he asks them to pursue such dream and achieve it. He believed that we will be what we think of ourselves.

“If we think we are weak, the new are and if we think we are strong then we indeed are strong.”

He started this mission “Lead India 2020”. His main aim by this mission was to rename India from a developing country to a developed country. It is sad that this great personality couldn’t live long enough to see his dream get completed but no doubt he has not left any stone unturned to make his dream a reality even if he is not there.

It has been 68 years since we got our independence from The Britishers after a struggle which lasted for 400 years. Many were killed, there was a lot of bloodsheds, and many lost their lives giving us the today which we are living in. I wish you all 69th independence of India, but I do really have this question in my mind that “is it really worth it to celebrate our independence?” What have we done so far to be proud to tell that we are the pride of India and we are worthy enough to celebrate today with great pride that it is our 69th year of freedom it is our fundamental duty to cherish the national ideas and freedom struggle and always hold them in high regard but what’s the purpose of remembering what happened almost 6 decades back?. Come on let’s be somewhat serious and genuinely ask ourselves this question. Why should we be celebrating Independence Day? What have we done to the country so far to say that we are Indians?  And we are proud to be?  69th year of freedom and still we call ourselves a developing country. Why is it? Whose fault is it? No use pointing out that it is the fault of the politicians or saying that it is the leaders work because it’s you who elect them and not them who rule you. You have the real power in you. You rule them.  What have you done? You being the citizen of India holding the all-powerful weapon of India’s future what have you done in furtherance of the dream of a developed nation for which many have sacrificed their lives so that we get what we are enjoying today.

I am not being pessimistic about our great nation because this nation is the greatest of all. It is a country which has a great history. It has the most powerful weapon in the world and that is this country’s youth. But are we utilizing such great power to the maximum extent?  Are we doing our duties enshrined in the article 51A of the Constitution?

I won’t say we are not trying to change or there is no change. There are in fact a lot of changes when compared to what we were a few years before. People have become more aware of what their rights and duties are and what they have to do in order to lead a peaceful life. The proofs of such changes are:

  1. BJP winning a clear majority for the first time in many years at the Central level.
  2. Election of Prime Minister Narendra Modi.
  3. Swachh Bharath Mission
  4. The increase in the voting percentage all over the country.
  5. Active participation in social and political activities by young and the old equally.
  6. Nirbhaya Amendment.
  7. Repealing of many archaic laws
  8. Enactment of stringent rules and strict practice thereof.
  9. Enhanced public policies.

These are some of the things which we can treat as our journey towards change in this year. But there is much more change India needs to get because this country still bleeds. Many people die of hunger even to this day, being an agrarian country a farmer is not encouraging his own son to pursue an agricultural profession. Many people don’t have a house to stay in and if I start with there is a huge list that never ceases to end. So much of our human resources are lying waste and underutilized because of lack of opportunities. As every coin has two sides this great country too has 2 sides. One which is striving for development and change and the other side people are becoming lazy and ignorant.

I once heard a person crack a joke on the Indian mentality. He said

Indians and women are same like an Iron Box; they are useless until they are under heat.

But I would prefer that we are similar to that of a missile. Inherently very dangerous and capable of creating great ripples wherever we go but we only do that when our time comes.

The problem with us Indians is we are both afraid and lazy. We know that we are capable of much more than what we think of ourselves but we don’t just care. We always look upon someone to come down to the job which we though categorically feel that we are not meant to do that. To prove this I will share with you an experiment. There is an empty class room and the students were asked to sit down and fill in the seats. Guess what they found out? Out of the 60 students it was only 2 students who took the initiative to sit in the first row of benches and after seeing them the other students followed. I will also give another one. There was a seminar going on in a college and the students were requested to come to the dias and give their few words on the topic and the results were that most of them were looking to other side or front or back to see if someone would start the seminar and some were looking down so that they are not asked to start with and few were calling out the names of their friends so that they get caught and are asked to speak first. This proves that we never tend to believe in ourselves and what we are actually capable of. It also proves that we always look for someone to start. I ask you “why can’t you be that someone?”  “Are you not capable of doing that?” if that is the case today there wouldn’t have been many great people out there to be called as great Indians. The point Is all those who became great always believed in them and not in their fears. They didn’t look for someone to start, they took the lead. They were not afraid to realize their dream and to do what they believed in. A.P.J Abdul Kalam was one of those great visionaries.

To honor him and to celebrate our independence righteously I guess we have to start walking towards change.

In my words I feel that India will achieve its true freedom when it will fulfill this great man’s dream, a dream, which he fought to make it a reality till his last fighting breath. He sacrificed his whole life for this dream and I think he will not want us sitting idle and remember what he has done because he would rather ask us to work more than the usual than to remember his great works.

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“If you want to see change in the society, you be the change you want to see.” – Mahatma Gandhi

Change doesn’t come from outside it comes from deep within yourself. India is moving forward towards change. But it will move forward and to a further greater position only when you change and walk towards growth and development. Jai Hind.

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HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY

Defamation- A wildfire

Dedicated to a friend and to all those who are victims of such wildfires.

This post is not just about that happened to my friend but to all those who have been a victim for unwanted paparazzi and criticism.

Usually in our world people are always jealous about some or the other people and it is a general human tendency to criticize the opposite person and they criticize because they either don’t like the way other persons do some things or they are simply jealous of them. Leaving apart from criticism it clearly is evident that it is the normal human nature to be anxious about what’s going on in other person’s life than what is going on in ours. We find it exciting and interesting to listen and know what the other person is doing. That is, in fact, good, but we generally tend to concentrate more on the negative of the person rather than the positive.

We do keep seeing in news every day about some great leader or politician getting caught in some scam or some political issues and as soon as this happens we can see that all the news channels and papers carry news about them extensively and even give nicknames, cartoons memes etc. but have you ever wondered what happens if he is let out that he has not done anything wrong? You won’t even bother even the newspapers may or may not carry the news because they don’t find it that interesting as the previous one because the previous one gave power, fame, satisfaction and sales whereas the 2nd news  won’t give them all those results.

It so really happened in many cases. my friend was one of the victims and am feeling very bad about how people are talking about him today. even those who don’t know him personally and have never seen him talk ill and bad about him and as if this is not enough they also improvise the story because they actually don’t know what really has happened so they make up such stories in order to show off and to prove that the opposite person is truly a bad one

No matter how many good things you do they won’t that popular but you do one bad thing the news is spread like a wildfire burning and eating away all the deeds you have done previously because good deeds and news are like water they don’t spread quickly whereas bad news is like wildfire they burn down faster even than you can imagine. But if you are proved right the world never talks about you, they only talk the wrongs you supposedly did.

Once a person is defamed it is spread like wildfire but if such an accusation is proved wrong, nobody even is bothered about that.

All I want to say that talk something good about a person rather than his bads. Who knows maybe someday you might be the bad one.

The Most Beautiful Person in the world

You are the most beautiful person I have ever seen in my life. I have never seen such a great person than you and neither can there be a great person other than you for me in this life.

You brought me into this world and stood by me, introduced me, gave me a life, gave me a name, a recognition and you lead me through the way in life by holding my hand until I could walk all by myself in the path  of my destiny. I failed, gave up on many things, but you have never given up on me. Even today, when I have nothing, you still believe in me, you say that there’s more to see and more to conquer in life. I may have given up on myself, lost hopes, stopped believing in me but you haven’t done anything like that, you are still there, holding your hand at the back for me to walk with me.

You are the person who started loving me long before you saw my face. You took care of me with all your life when I was the most vulnerable, I didn’t even know what I was and who I am, but you still didn’t question God. You just loved me unconditionally even when I let you down many times. You gave me the life that I have today, you have guarded me with your life from the day you knew I was going to come to this world and from that day forth you took great pain to lay down a perfect path for me from the day I was born to this day. You are the most beautiful person in the world indeed mother and whether I say it or not, god knows what the truth is and I am glad he has given me the greatest boon of my life i.e. a mother like you, in my life.

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I don’t know what I am for you, maybe just a child or a whole new world, but what you are for me, cannot be put in those two small terms. So I guessed I want to put it in a series to see what you are to me and to many of those whose mother really is for them in their life.

  • You were the person, who protected me with your life and the cost you paid for me, is your life. It is said that “when a woman gives birth to a child she receives that much pain which is enough to kill a normal human being.”
  • You became my guardian.
  • When I was born, I was a hollow person knowing nothing, not even the reason why I cried for hours together in the night, but you just held me up close to you, being awake to put me back to sleep.
  • You became my night owl to watch over me.
  • When I couldn’t sleep you sang songs, lullabies, you rocked me to sleep.
  • You became my singing cradle.
  • You burnt your hands to check if the milk was too hot for me to drink.
  • You became my “Food Tester”.
  • When I was injured, you became my medicine.
  • When I failed, you became my encouragement.
  • When I lost hope, you became my believer.
  • When I made a mistake, you became my guide.
  • When I was lost you, became my lighthouse.
  • When I was angry, sorrow or happy you became my bank where I deposited all my emotions.
  • When I fell sick you were the patient.
  • You cry if I am sad.
  • You do the work which I am meant to do even though you are tired.
  • You feel contented when I eat food
  • When I win, you feel as if you have won it and you are on top of this world
  • And the most important of all, when I needed you the most you were always there for me, no matter what or when, but you always were there for me. Here you became my 24X7 emergency services.

But what did you get in return for all of this?

Because I am not and cannot even be half of the things which I wrote you became for me. “Why do you do it?”

You don’t even get paid for it or get benefitted from it. Then why do you do it? Why do you believe in me when the whole world doesn’t? to that, you simply say, “ I haven’t raised you for nothing, you weren’t born for anything. You have your own purpose to fulfill and mine is to make you pursue your purpose” and when I ask you about how much do you get paid? She simply says “nothing” and yet she does her job. That is the beauty of her because being paid nothing yet she gives the most valuable service any person could even despite the best pay in the world.

I don’t know f I can ever beat you at your job mom, but I do know one thing for sure. You have sacrificed many of your dreams, to just see me materialize and realize my dream. You lost and yet you are happy because I am living my dreams. Today is a day where I like to look back a few years, when you stood by me against all odds believing in me that I would make up to this day and just as you said I made it up this day and I promise you that whatever may be the circumstances I will live my dreams and make your dreams come true because you have given me a life which I am not worthy, but you made me believe that I am a lot more than what I think about myself. You showed me the goal of my life and I assure you that I will achieve it not because it’s my dream but because you believed in me and I couldn’t have made it if not for you.

The greatest person is that person who works 24X7 for the welfare of others and is paid nothing in return and that person is MOM” 

I was never around when you wanted me. I was busy prioritizing things, but you were always with me in my thick and thin. You are the only person on this whole planet who know me in and out. And today I promise the most beautiful person on earth that I realized my true purpose of my life and that is to make you feel proud of the cost you have paid to see a dream which I never believed in and also to always be by your side no matter what.

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MOM our smile is a priority for you and our happiness. Your smile is definitely the most precious one for me and you are my living inspiration of Persuasion.

I love you, mom. You are my living inspiration. You are my living breath. Your smile matters the most to me in this world. Keep smiling