Bye 2025 and Happy New Year 2026

2025 is gone.

365 days, 24 hours each — finished in the blink of an eye.

Some days felt like blessings.

Some were just okay.

Some made me question everything.

And some, honestly… I didn’t want to end at all.

While others, I couldn’t wait to skip past, just to see what the next day brought — a miracle or fresh drama.

One thing 2025 taught me clearly:

Most of us, including me, said at least once —

“Nobody appreciates what I do” or “I give more than I receive.”

So maybe the truth is —

we all failed a little in appreciating, and a little in feeling appreciated.

And no amount ever feels enough.

But today, I want to do it differently.

To every person who stood by me this year —

in presence, in silence, in care, in lessons, in love, even in distance —

thank you.

For the support I asked for, and also for the support I never did.

We often mistake blessings as burdens —

like a parent’s call that feels annoying when we’re busy,

but is a dream for someone who doesn’t get that call anymore.

Perspective changes everything.

So if I ever hurt you, ignored you, or took you for granted —

I’m sorry.

And if anyone took me for granted — I forgive you, and myself too.

Because the best thing about 2026 isn’t knowing what it holds,

but knowing who I hold in my life.

The right people can make even the falling days feel softer.

So, thank you for staying.

Thank you for leaving if you had to.

Thank you for the role you played either way.

2026 mantra:

• Appreciate more

• Expect less

• Take nothing for granted

• Keep your circle intentional

2025:

Appreciate what people did for you — even if it wasn’t perfect, even if it wasn’t returned.

Let go where appreciation was missing.

Choose peace. Choose joy.

2026:

Surround yourself with the ones who matter.

Love them loudly, value them deeply.

Happy New Year!

May we all appreciate more and regret less.

— Tanay ✨

Speak Like It’s a Spell

Laundpana – Speak Like It’s a Spell

How often do you hear people telling you not to talk too much about yourself, or to always pronounce and spell things correctly? I don’t know how true what I’m about to say is, but I truly believe it.

There’s this one rap song I stumbled upon on YouTube — Laundpana by Kayden Sharma[1]. It had been a long time since I enjoyed a rap this much, not since Apna Time Aayega from Gully Boy. While listening to this track, a few lines hit me hard. They made me feel that the advice to not speak less about yourself and to speak clearly isn’t just a social nicety — it might actually be backed by something deeper, maybe even science.

Here are a few lines from the song that really stood out:

“HALLU HALLU SACHAI HAI BADALRAUN MEIN KHWAAB”

“KITTE KI SAALON SE HUMLA BHOOKKE BAITHE”

“KAYDEN BADE LOG KE SATH UTH TA BAITHTA NAHI”

“BADE LOGAAN KAYDEN KE SATH UTHTE BAITHE”

“TV PE AANE KE BAAD MAIN SUPERSTAR NAHI BANA”

“SUPERSTAR THA ISKE LIYE AAYA MAIN TV PE”

Every time I listen to this song, it reinforces my belief that the way we speak about ourselves — especially to ourselves — can truly shape our lives.

As I planned to write about this song, I didn’t want to do it blindly. So I did a bit of research. That’s when I found something fascinating: the word spell doesn’t just mean to spell out letters. Historically, it also refers to casting a spell[2]. That really struck a chord with me. It’s no wonder that clear, confident, and positive speech is so powerful. The words we use literally shape our perception — of ourselves and of the world around us.

Think about it. Every great leader in history was a powerful speaker and a believer in themselves. They didn’t downplay their worth or wallow in a victim mindset. They spoke with confidence and faith in their journey, no matter how hard life hit them.

One story that demonstrates the power of belief and words is that of Nick Sitzman[3]. He was accidentally locked inside a freezer overnight. He panicked, convinced he would freeze to death. The next morning, he was found dead — cause of death: hypothermia. But here’s the twist — the freezer wasn’t working at all that night. It had malfunctioned and wasn’t even cold. Nick died not from the actual cold, but from the belief that he was freezing.

His mind made it real. That’s how powerful our thoughts, words, and beliefs are. So, to conclude:

You can shape your reality by the way you speak — especially about yourself. Speak with belief. Speak with power.

Spell it like a spell.

[1] Laundpana by Kayden Sharma – YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0MdSpxab89A

[2] The word “spell” and its magical roots – Medium: https://medium.com/@theawakenedstate/the-magic-of-spelling-words-41936db32bc4

[3] Nick Sitzman freezer death story – Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/how-risky-is-it-really/201006/dying-thought

Why God created a Human

God was busy for many days planning to create something spectacular and something that was never done before.

He wanted to create a world. He started off by creating an environment where different kinds of species can live together.

He then started to create each species meticulously and placed them on the environment he chose to name it as “Earth”

It was very tedious work for God. God worked tirelessly for almost few days now and God being happy with his creation, decides to relax and see how his creation was.

He was at first delighted to see his creation coming to life. After sometime he got bored because everything was in order. Each species would eat, sleep and then wake and the cycle would repeat.

God was not at all happy. He wanted something else. He didn’t know what. He wanted to shake this feeling off of him but couldn’t. Then an idea struck him. He then created “HUMAN” a species who is never happy with what they are and what they have and keep searching for happiness as long as they’re alive! And bingo now God is super happy!!

That is the reason why God created Human.

vorugantipavan #yqbaba #yourquote #whygodcreatedus #whygodcreatedhumans #randomthoughts

Read more of my thoughts on YourQuote app
https://www.yourquote.in/voruganti-pavan-tanay-nag-hdoj/quotes/why-god-created-human-btlbua

The day “The Wall” spoke to me

“Don’t cry my boy. What is bothering you that you are crying?” Said a voice. I looked around to see who it was but I couldn’t see anyone and how could I? I was sitting in between the water tanks on the top of my home.

“Look here its me” said the voice again. I looked all around and started to feel a bit scared.

“I am the wall speaking to you” I heard the voice speak again. “I am just beside you. You have been crying on my shoulder for sometime now.” Frightened I moved away from the tank. “No, no, it’s okay. Don’t fear. I saw you crying and just couldn’t stop myself from asking why you are crying so much.” said the wall.

“I am crying because I am hurt,
I am crying because the world is bad,
I am crying because life is unfair to me,
I am crying because nobody loves me,
I am crying because I am not good at anything,
I am crying because nobody loves me.” I replied.

“Is that all?” Asked the wall. “Is that all??? You think living like this is easy? Anyways what do you know you’re just a wall.” I yelled.

“Yes, I am a wall. But if you see closely, I am built brick by brick so that I can stand strong. I might not be able to move anywhere but people use me to protect them from harsh weathers, people use me to punch and get stronger, people use me to vent out their emotions. People use me to protect themselves. People use me for privacy. Individually I am just a wall but at times I am the huge barricade that saves water for you (Dam), I am the vessel where you save water (tank) and I am the majestic monument you call fort. I am everything you build. I might not know how it feels to cry. But I do know this my boy that I was not never this strong by myself. I didn’t become the wall in a day. I was built one brick at a time and I was tested in harsh weathers, I am made to withstand harsh situations and that’s how I became strong. Yes life is not fair. So I will give you an advise. Be like a wall. Be strong and indifferent to those who try to harm you, be a support to those who need you, protect those whom you love. Lastly be a majestic beauty. Don’t cry my boy. Be the wall.”

And then I woke up in between the two water tanks. I realized I fell asleep on those steps. This was the day the wall spoke to me.

#belikethewall#vorugantipavan#thedaythewallspoketome#yourquote#yqbaba#longform#motivation#inspiration