Why true Peace needs strength: A Lesson from the Guru

There was a gurukulam with a few disciples in the southern parts of India. One day, a disciple approached his Guruji and asked:

Disciple: “Guruji, you teach us many things. But two of your teachings intrigue and confuse me. You ask us to be the strongest people we can be, and yet, you also ask us to follow non-violence. If I cannot use my strength, then why did you make us strong in the first place, only to tell us not to use it?”

Guruji: “Do you see the great mountain behind our gurukulam?”

Disciple: “Yes, Guruji, I do.”

Guruji: “Do you think I could climb to its peak in half a day?”

Disciple: “You are strong, Guruji, but I think it is impossible even for you. Even I, in my prime, would take more than half a day to climb it.”

Guruji: “Good. Now, what if I asked you to climb it in half a day or less? What would you say?”

Disciple: “I would tell you, Guruji, that it is not possible for me.”

Guruji: “And if I forced or pressured you to do it?”

Disciple: “Then I would ask—were you able to do it when you were my age? Or I would say, Guruji, please show me how to do it first. If you can, then I will try.”

Guruji smiled.

Guruji: “Exactly. That is why I trained you in warfare. Not because you must always use it, but so that you and others understand that violence is not the solution to all problems. When a weak man preaches non-violence, people dismiss it, saying he speaks so only because he cannot fight. But when a strong man, fully capable of fighting, chooses non-violence—people listen. They know it comes from wisdom, not weakness. Remember this: it is always better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a battlefield. When you have strength yet choose peace, people will respect you, because you are showing them a higher path—that strength must be used only when necessary.”

The disciple bowed.

Disciple: “Thank you, Guruji, for enlightening me. But just as we disciples listened to you and became who we are today, won’t others also do the same?”

Guruji: “Let me tell you the story of Raja Hemanand Pratap Varma…”

The Tale of Raja Hemanand Pratap Varma

Raja Hemanand Pratap Varma was a just and kind king. His people loved him deeply, for he was wise and compassionate. Under his rule, there was peace and prosperity—no crimes, no wars, only flourishing trade and happiness.

Whenever rival kings threatened war, Hemanand would ask them: “What is it that you truly need? Why waste lives and resources? Let us resolve this peacefully.” He always extended the olive branch, providing what they sought to avoid bloodshed.

This attitude stemmed from his past. As a child, Hemanand was weak and often bullied. His father, a warrior king, had died in battle. From that time, Hemanand vowed never to follow the path of violence. He shunned warfare and physical training, choosing instead to rule through peace.

His ideals made his kingdom prosper. Neighboring kings saw him as harmless, and merchants from far and wide flocked to his peaceful, wealthy land. But this very prosperity attracted the attention of Virata Samrat, a cruel and greedy ruler.

Virata challenged Hemanand: “Let us wage war. The victor shall rule both kingdoms.”

But Hemanand stayed true to his ideals. He refused bloodshed and instead sent 1,000 carts of gold, saying: “Let us avoid war, for it will only destroy our people. Accept this token, and let us live as friends.”

Virata was astonished—yet insulted. He thought: “If Hemanand can spare 1,000 carts of gold for peace, how much more treasure must he hold? And how dare he imply that I can be bought?”

His pride wounded, Virata decided to exploit Hemanand’s weakness—his kindness. He accepted the offer, pretended friendship, and slowly gained Hemanand’s trust. Soon, he sat in the king’s court, influencing matters of state.

Once he had learned enough, Virata struck. He betrayed Hemanand, killed him, and exiled his wife and son. Virata seized the throne and ruled the once-prosperous kingdom with cruelty.

Guruji’s voice grew solemn.

Guruji: “Do you see, my child? Raja Hemanand had peace in his heart, but no strength to protect it. Peace without strength is fragile, like a lamp in the wind. Strength without peace is destructive, like fire in the forest. True wisdom is in having both—strength to defend, and the will to choose peace.”

The disciple bowed deeply, his doubts dissolved.

Disciple: “Now I understand, Guruji. Peace is indeed the greatest weapon—but only when it is guarded by strength.”

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Don’t let fear paralyze your vision.

 

Just like most people, I thought I cannot be defeated nor can I be wrong. I felt like I cannot become a failure because I work hard and there was no way all my efforts will go in vain, but I was wrong. Just like anybody else, I experienced ups and downs in my life. Though I haven’t seen life much when I did fail, at this point in my life, I did hit rock bottom. I was at a job where I was not happy with where my career path was going, I started an online business with the hopes that it becomes a huge success, and much to my shock, it came crumbling down and I was not able to make that business a success. I was failing both personally and professionally. Amidst all this, I lost my job. I panicked because everything in my life started falling apart and I became exactly what people told me “a failure”. Read More »

The day “The Wall” spoke to me

“Don’t cry my boy. What is bothering you that you are crying?” Said a voice. I looked around to see who it was but I couldn’t see anyone and how could I? I was sitting in between the water tanks on the top of my home.

“Look here its me” said the voice again. I looked all around and started to feel a bit scared.

“I am the wall speaking to you” I heard the voice speak again. “I am just beside you. You have been crying on my shoulder for sometime now.” Frightened I moved away from the tank. “No, no, it’s okay. Don’t fear. I saw you crying and just couldn’t stop myself from asking why you are crying so much.” said the wall.

“I am crying because I am hurt,
I am crying because the world is bad,
I am crying because life is unfair to me,
I am crying because nobody loves me,
I am crying because I am not good at anything,
I am crying because nobody loves me.” I replied.

“Is that all?” Asked the wall. “Is that all??? You think living like this is easy? Anyways what do you know you’re just a wall.” I yelled.

“Yes, I am a wall. But if you see closely, I am built brick by brick so that I can stand strong. I might not be able to move anywhere but people use me to protect them from harsh weathers, people use me to punch and get stronger, people use me to vent out their emotions. People use me to protect themselves. People use me for privacy. Individually I am just a wall but at times I am the huge barricade that saves water for you (Dam), I am the vessel where you save water (tank) and I am the majestic monument you call fort. I am everything you build. I might not know how it feels to cry. But I do know this my boy that I was not never this strong by myself. I didn’t become the wall in a day. I was built one brick at a time and I was tested in harsh weathers, I am made to withstand harsh situations and that’s how I became strong. Yes life is not fair. So I will give you an advise. Be like a wall. Be strong and indifferent to those who try to harm you, be a support to those who need you, protect those whom you love. Lastly be a majestic beauty. Don’t cry my boy. Be the wall.”

And then I woke up in between the two water tanks. I realized I fell asleep on those steps. This was the day the wall spoke to me.

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“Honey, the Job lost Me!”

Tuesday 3 PM:

To read the previous chapter click on the below link:

https://myjourneyinsearchofhumanity.wordpress.com/2019/09/22/honey-the-job-lost-me-chapter-3-continues/

You are early today! Looks like you are interested in the sessions!

Yes Deepika, this place is nice so I thought why not I come a bit early and have some quiet time alone.

Oh yeah! It is good to take time off Pulkit. Everybody needs to take time off and go on a date with themselves every now and then so that you can come back with a bang.

So where did we stop last time?

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